Lessons from a seven pounder

Lesson #1: Cuddle Much

It is amazing what can be packed into a 7 pound package. I have a cuddle bug on my hands. My first weeks with Lawrence in my life have reminded me that I need to sit and be still. And oh what a challenge this is for me. I can’t hardly sit and watch a movie without folding laundry, going thru the mail, sleeping, or all of the above! This little man can hardly sleep without cuddling up on either Corey or myself. This means many hours of sitting very still.

As bad as it sounds, this is a little hard for me. I have been taking care of myself and a self sufficient husband until now. These days I sit and nurse for at least 7 hours a day. I sit and “nap” day and night. I sit and rock back and forth. This is so not natural for a girl who doesn’t sit. But I love feeling Lawrence’s little body curled up in a ball and resting on my chest.

Isn’t it ironic that one my challenges with Lawrence coincides with one of my struggles as a Christian. The Lord longs for me to sit and be still. All He wants is my time and attention. And that is the hardest thing for me to give. I love to serve, I love to worship, I love to help people, I love to provide for my family, I love to give financial support. Those things are easy for me to give. But my time - that is precious. The Lord longs for me to give Him what is most precious to me. And that is what I will give Lawrence and what he needs most from me right now. I will appreciate the moments that we have all cuddled together on the couch where I can hear his every squeak, breath, and toot. Those times are pretty precious.

Lesson #2: Sleep Fast

We are learning to sleep fast in the Bevan household. When it is your turn to sleep then it is: PJ’s on, teeth brushed, lights out, eyes closed, and you’re off -- in a matter of minutes. This is precious time and it is not to be taken for granted. Corey usually takes one nighttime session for me so that I can sleep in our bed (alone). This gives me anywhere from 2 to 4 hours of good rest. I am so grateful for that time and thankful for the fact that I can usually sleep fast.

Lesson #3: Shower Little

Ok, not really. I do usually work a shower into my day. Although it is pretty tempting some days since it is usually a toss up between taking a shower or a nap. And I won’t lie, some days the nap totally trumps the shower. So be sure to call before you come by :)

Pictures!

Insanity

At moments I feel that I am going insane. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Although fully aware of this definition, exhaustion prevents me from thinking any further and changing things up. If I seem a little loopy next time you see me, I appreciate any grace you can afford and simply plead insanity.

Phone Number

I wanted to let you all know that my phone number is changing. I am finally converting to a Kansas area code and a Verizon plan. My new number is 316.347.0176. It is now active and I'll likely cancel my Colorado number on Monday.

My Little Man

I apologize for being so tardy in posting new pictures of my little man. Somehow I've been caught up in this new life. My days are now based around 3 hour increments that occasionally allow for a nap or an email. But as soon as I think I'll have some predictable time for me, then Lawrence decides that he needs some quality time with me instead :)

This is me on my 2 week birthday.

I am now busting the scales at 7 lb 7.5 oz

My favorite place is on the couch with my Pa. Morning, Noon, or Night!

Check out my bulging biceps that I got from my mama!

This is a momentous occasion of me taking a nap in my crib. Mom doesn't normally put me on my head to sleep, but must have been desperate this time.

AND GUESS WHAT - I did this whole post and he's still sleeping! Should I eat breakfast, brush my teeth, or water the plants... If I move fast I can do all three!